Popular Nigerian author, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, has advised young women to be thoughtful and intentional when choosing a life partner, cautioning against the dangers of marrying out of desperation or pressure from society. The award-winning writer, who is 47 years old, shared this advice during a recent event with students. She underscored the long-term impact of such a major decision, urging women to focus on finding partners who are kind, supportive, and emotionally mature.
“It’s really important who you choose. It’s really important. Young women, choose wisely,” Adichie said. “Sometimes as young women, you can tell that the person you’re with is not really a good person, but you’re desperate to get married. “You’re desperate to have somebody who’s your partner. Don’t settle. Be very careful who you choose.