Saturday 9 June 2018

How Long Will It Take You To Leave Your Partner And Get A Divorce?

Getting a divorce is usually one of the hardest decisions for couples to make because of the different processes that are involved. If you’ve decided that your partner is better off as your ex, the last thing you want is for a divorce to drag on…and on.
So, how long does a divorce take?
It all depends on how you go about it and what type of marriage you guys had. If you went through the DIY route, you could be single within months. Head to the courts and you’re looking at a much, much longer process.
A Divorce Without Shared Interests
This one is certainly the easiest because of the fact that you and your partner don’t share is kids or many assets that takes time to divide.
What makes it even easier is if you didn’t approach the marriage registries to make your relationship official. All you need do is agree with the other person and voila!
Mediation Processes
In the African setting, this is usually employed by friends, families and relatives of both sides. However, the courts can also provide or serve as a mediator.
Let’s say things are amicable, but you still have problems to resolve. A mediator is a neutral third party who will meet with the couple to try to work out their issues, but they don’t advocate for either party.
This person doesn’t need to be a lawyer—they could be a therapist—but they need to have an understanding of the law for the process to work. A couple will likely meet with the mediator several times. Their role is to help you communicate effectively so you two can come to an agreement on your own.
Depending on if the mediator is able to achieve success, it can either be a quick process or drag on for years.
Arbitration
The difference here as related to mediation is that you’re both hiring a third party to work out the terms of your divorce and arbitrator will make the decision on issues you can’t agree on.
For instance, if there are issues with the amount of child support, an arbitrator would consider both sides and decide on an amount. An arbitrator can deal with all of the issues in your divorce or just handle a specific issue that you and your spouse can’t agree on.
While you and your partner may still have lawyers your individual lawyers, the arbitrator can help reach a consensus on certain issues.
Negotiated Settlement
This one leaves it all up to the lawyers representing each side, who typically make phone calls and send settlement letters back and forth to reach agreements on various pieces of the divorce puzzle including dividing assets, alimony/child support, and so on.
If you do go to court, a judge will make the ruling. If that’s necessary, it can take longer to get a divorce, as you have to set a court date—and wait months or even up to a year for the hearing.
Lastly, no matter how you think your divorce is going to go, when emotions are high, things can go downhill fast, and it helps to have someone on your side. It is important you have a support system to pass through such trying period of your life.

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